tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7272226190742531632.post4081644611400093579..comments2019-06-04T06:48:03.087-07:00Comments on Seeking the Symphony: Just Write: If it's not about me, then why does it still hurt this badly?Alissa Coburnhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05214436819001911563noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7272226190742531632.post-39405247603532646242011-09-15T05:01:08.086-07:002011-09-15T05:01:08.086-07:00Thank you, Steph. Jamie and Christine, I think yo...Thank you, Steph. Jamie and Christine, I think you're both right. I think she's definitely worried about not seeing her dad as much, and I think she's worried about not seeing Noel, too (the boyfriend). That's one of the reasons Josiah was so helpful. He realized that and made sure she understood that if we get married, he'll make every effort to make sure she sees her dad if that's what she needs to be happy (yeah, I say "he" not "we" cuz that's how awesome he is. LOL He took that on himself). I think that assuaged her fears a lot. She's been REALLY great the last couple days...last night she even slipped in a "love ya Josiah...see ya later." :) This whole parenting thing is QUITE the roller coaster ride.Alissa Coburnhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05214436819001911563noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7272226190742531632.post-87325665765325663052011-09-13T21:31:02.348-07:002011-09-13T21:31:02.348-07:00Oh, I am so sorry. I know that probably hurt, but ...Oh, I am so sorry. I know that probably hurt, but bless you for understanding and allowing you both some grace.<br /><br />StephStephanie Wilson she/her @babystephhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02703122439142892617noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7272226190742531632.post-85566967933310970722011-09-13T19:28:11.671-07:002011-09-13T19:28:11.671-07:00praying :( I'm sure it has to do with the neig...praying :( I'm sure it has to do with the neighbor boyfriend. I can't imagine how much that must have hurt, but it definitely isn't about you! Just remember that, even when it's hard, and I know it's hard because as moms we take everything personally by nature. Hugs.Jamiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14690409380485766239noreply@blogger.com